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Does Losing Strip Poker Constitute As Cheating If The Spouse Isnt There Or Doesnt Know About The Game At All?

Matilde-Rowley, 2007-06-01 06:36:12
My girfriend, her female friend, and some guy decided to play strip poker last night and she lost. Long story short she ended up getting naked infront of some guy (big nono in my book). I had no idea that the game even took place untill she called me crying about how bad she feelt about it afterwards. Should I feel like my trust was betrayed? What should I do in a situation like this?

2007-06-01 07:28:54 Joesph-Tanner wrote: well for one, if your in a serious relationship, she shouldnt be playing strip poker with other guys if your not there. i honestly would be pissed, im sure she wouldnt be too happy if the roles were reversed and you did it. but does she know that thats something that you consider a no no???

2007-06-01 07:33:12 Neomi-Kooser wrote: Thats up to you, and you alone to decide.Morales, your upbringing...Ya know.Thats your call.If you can't figure it out on your own, then I really think it is no big deal.Besides? she didn't have sex, and the body is just a body.We all got the same parts, it seems Americans, myself included in that group, are raised to be very shy about our naked bodies.While in say, European Countries, the naked body is nothing to be ashamed of, or anything else.I say, No, she did nothing really wrong.But then as I am typing that out, I'm like...Yeah, thats a bunch of Crap! If my G.F. was with a girl and another guy, who I do not even know...I mean...WTF?Yeah, thats Bullsh*t!!!But you need to ask her.This is something that should be, between the two of you.Probably not for a discussion in an open forum.But then again, like I said, if you have ta' ask us here...then no, no problem.

2007-06-01 07:29:56 Wendell-Hall wrote: Dump her. Your trust was betrayed. She should know better than to play strip-poker with "some guy" there. If it was all girls, I wouldn't worry about it. But "some guy"??? That's a breach to trust.The fact too that she actually got naked should worry you. She could have just left before taking off the final piece, or just simply refused to take it off at all. That she showed no modesty should concern you.

2007-06-01 07:30:51 Jason-Eiford wrote: "Jesus said, If you look with lust.You have already commited adultery in your heart."

2007-06-01 07:30:17 Coy-Koster wrote: Ask to play next time and bend her friend over the poker table when your done!

2007-06-01 07:44:51 Willodean-Omara wrote: I wouldn't call it cheating but it was definitely wrong on her part and it seems like she knows it. I do agree that she should lose a lot of your trust on this one. It's not grounds for a break up but she has a lot of work to do to regain your trust. If she's worth it, she'll learn from this mistake and prove to you that she's sorry. If I were you, I'd be stand-offish for a while until I calmed down. By the time I completely calmed down and started to move on (which could be a couple of months), I'd know if she were worth me sticking around for.PS - If that is the whole story (and it might not be, she could be only telling you half of what happened to read your reaction) give her a second chance. If not, I'd move on ( 1] for lying, 2] for doing something she felt she had to hide from you). If she cheated on you now, next time will be easier.

2007-06-01 07:40:37 Jerrell-Meyers wrote: kid her about it when you are in your rocking chairs.

2007-06-01 07:28:05 Ira-Keener wrote:

She only called crying because she was afraid of being caught.
She loved it you nut.
She could have left the table.

2007-06-01 07:36:18 Frederick-Holts wrote: Well, yes and no and yes and no.Yes, it's cheating - it's like does the light in the refrigerator really go out when the door's closed?No, she didn't mean for it to happen.Yes, you should feel hurt and betrayed - by her bad choices.No, you shouldn't hold this against her - because you are a loving and forgiving man who adores his girlfriend - who is contrite and sorry for her bad choice. PLUS - she had the guts to admit it to you herself - rather than you hearing it second-hand. That took courage. I'm sure she felt you were going to leave her. Instead, have a long sincere and CALM talk with her about your feelings about this entire situation. Tell her how hurt you are - and that you even can't understand what in the world she was thinking. However, that doesn't mean you want to break up with her - and you hope she learned something valuable from this (unspoken: that she needs to really weigh her choices - and that you are indeed a wonderful man.)Now then, it need not be conveyed as a father-child scolding - but she really needs to know how hurt you are. And don't go saying "If you ever do that again we're through." That goes without saying. But forgive her. At least she found the strength of character to tell you herself.

2007-06-01 07:28:17 Antony-Earhart wrote:

so what if someone saw here nekkid how to get unlimited play money on party poker.
she's not your property.
she has the same parts as all women i assume.
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2007-06-01 07:29:21 Latonya-Gettemy wrote: if your a little mad about it, cool off for a little while. and if she's truly sorry then you can forgive her. she probably was a little drunk and didn't mean things that she did. just give it time, and see what you and her feel about the situation =]big no no in my book too. if she knew she could lose, she shouldnt have participated. at least she told you the truth. let her chase you for awhile so you know how sorry she really is.

2007-06-01 07:27:25 Arnoldo-Cox wrote: If you lost trust there may be no gaining it back. I would be heartbroken. I am sorry, but I would probably be really upset for a while. It would take me a while to trust her again. Its kinda like if she lied about this what else has she lied about. You deserve better. Liar's never prosper and neither do cheaters. &&& that is somewhat considered cheating... GOOD LUCK GUY. :)

2007-06-01 07:27:53 Jeramy-Leech wrote: at least she told you, but i'd question why she thought it was okay to do in the first place.

2007-06-01 07:27:53 Sylvester-Gibson wrote:

Well, she's sorry and didn't do anything physical so just let her know you're upset and to not do it again.
It's still flirting, still not something she should be doing, but it's not like she had slept with the guy and there were other people so it's not like she stripped for the guy who was there.
I say forgive her in time, let her know the boundaries though.

2007-06-01 22:13:55 Dorothy-Fiscina wrote:

Hi there,
Tell her to put the boot on the other foot "would she like you to play " ( strip poker ) if she weren"t there?
The crying thing is also in my opinion is not on because she is diverting your attention from the issue at hand by using "emotional balckmail" ask her if she where crying when she stripped in front of this other guy?.
And also when she called you "full of remorse" ( was she telling you before anybody else could ?
) as it makes no sense buddy.
'Everybody makes mistakes and they need understanding and forgiveness when they are geniune about themselves it's up to you to decide whether to forgive her or not..
good luck buddy..

2007-06-01 07:27:57 Thanh-Guess wrote:

I think that when you're in a relationship with someone you shouldn't put yourself in a situation that might make someone think that you are cheating or would cheat how to get unlimited play money on party poker.
Being around naked people doesn't make you look innocent, that's for sure.

2007-06-01 09:44:26 Tenesha-Logue wrote:

I think you should be honest with her about how you feel.How long have you 2 been dating?
that really does constitute what you should do.
2: Keep your pimp hand strong and find someone else.
If she were to do something like that, it would be a huge issue, whereas if she were to do it in the first couple weeks/months, it wouldn't hit me as hard.
If you have been in a relationship for awhile with her, i would say this is an outcry for something new or exciting.
I've have many girlfriends who did a lot of stupid stuff within the first couple weeks of dating, probably because we had only been dating a couple of weeks.
Hope this helps.
If your relationship is relatively new, than i would do 1 of 2 things.
See if she responds with any kind of sympathy, and if so, give her ONE more chance.
1: Explain to her how it made you feel.
I have been dating my current girlfriend for 4 years and we are both in college now.

2007-06-01 07:54:23 Tori-Staymates wrote: from someone who their spouse has cheated on them I wouldn't consider that cheating she felt bad and she came to you with this correct. the main question here is do you yourself consider this cheating and do you trust her I have found in my exp. with my hubby cheating on me that if you feel in your heart that its cheating then its cheating and 9 times out of 10 if you get a feeling in the bottom of your stomach telling you he/she is cheating 9 times out of 10 he/she is